
Do you feel perpetually busy, exhausted and stressed, while struggling to achieve meaningful results? This pervasive problem stems from constant distractions paired with a lack of clear boundaries at work.
Distraction is an insidious problem that leads us to be busy all day rather than truly able to accomplish our most important goals. Distractions come from technology, other people, and even from our own thoughts.
Too often, we silently accept that this is the way our workplace has to be, rather than proactively setting boundaries that protect our most valuable asset: our attention. Yet setting boundaries is the secret to achieving what’s most important in our workdays. It’s what allows us to finish the day thinking, “What a great day—I got so much done!” rather than simply feeling drained by the feeling that you were busy all day but somehow got nothing done.
In this article, we’ll explore the common workplace habits that chip away at your productivity, leaving you frazzled and depleted. Then I’ll show you how to fight back against these habits to intentionally set boundaries that protect your attention.
Why common workplace habits undermine productivity
The challenges to our focus are deeply ingrained in workplace culture, so much so that we simply accept that it “has to be this way.” In other words, we don’t give a second thought to these habits, even though, for most of us, they derail our productivity. Let’s take a closer look at some workplace habits that are actually undermining our productivity.
Always-On Technology
Our technology, while sold as the tools that help us accomplish more, too often steal our attention away from what’s most important—meaningful tasks, quiet reflection, other people. Many of us use multiple monitors, with one often dedicated solely to incoming messages, creating an “always-on” setup that guarantees constant distraction.
This approach supports and promotes constant task switching, which makes work take longer, lowers quality, and worsens thinking skills over time. This widespread, subtle distraction ultimately harms real productivity and costs companies millions in lost efficiency.
Pressure to Respond Quickly
Furthermore, the workplace culture often fosters a subtle pressure for immediate responsiveness, rather than believing that a thoughtful reply will be more valued by our client or customer. Instead, leaders and colleagues may inadvertently reinforce the belief that being “responsive” means being “fast,” leading employees to monitor communications incessantly, even after hours or on weekends.
We’ve invited this “always-on” behavior due to our perceived expectations and ingrained habits. The result undermines true productivity, replacing meaningful progress with frantic activity.
Constant Interruptions
In many offices, it’s common to “pop in” on a colleague or boss or direct report with a quick “got a minute?” question or a request to complete an urgent task. Too often, we feel rude if we turn these people away, so instead, we say, “Of course,” while inside we think “I guess you couldn’t tell I was right in the middle of something, but whatever!” However, this sort of office etiquette isn’t doing anyone any favors.
The solution? Set intentional boundaries at work
You possess far more control over your environment than you currently exert. By failing to intentionally set boundaries, you are missing out on the opportunity to reclaim the focus and time that you are currently losing to distractions.
1. Create “communication hours”
In many companies, there’s no clear policy around when it is and isn’t okay to communicate with colleagues, or which tool is most appropriate in which situation. As a result, while there may be “business hours,” communication via email or other channels often continues around the clock, in whichever channel the sender prefers, and in many cases, multiple channels. (Think about how often you receive a chat or text that reads, “I just sent you an email.”)
A zmail” policy can discourage after-hours emails, by defining specific “communication hours.” Even if work happens outside these times, messages are delivered respectfully, perhaps by utilizing a “schedule send” feature. This allows you and your team a chance to refresh and recharge after hours, on weekends, and during vacations.
2. Take control of your technology
Too often our technology seems to be the boss of us and not the other way around. In order to correct this problem, we need to set boundaries with our technology. This includes disabling unhelpful notifications (which— let’s face it— is almost all of them), putting devices on silent/airplane, or “Do Not Disturb.” These settings help us to consciously direct our attention rather than react to every incoming ping.
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3. Set boundaries with co-workers
There are several ways to set clear boundaries with co-workers (or family members/roommates if you work from home.) First, you can wear headphones to signal to co-workers that you’re engaged in deep work, or, if you have an office door, close it and put a sign on the outside that says, “I’m available for impromptu conversations between [x time] and [y time]” or “…when the door is open.”
You might also want to download my lighthearted “Do Not Disturb” signs. You can print these out and stick them on your desk, office door, or the back of your chair, to provide a simple, visual signal to let others know you are hard at work. Click the button above to download these signs today to take back control of your attention and your workday.
4. Encourage thoughtful rather than fast responses
Keep in mind that most communication does not need to be “synchronous,” or “real time.” In most cases, a delay between a message and a response (asynchronous) does not diminish the dialogue. So a critical shift that can make your days less hectic involves embracing more asynchronous communication.
Leaders should model these behaviors, emphasizing that being truly “responsive” means being mindful and thorough, not merely fast. If you think that delayed responses may be perceived unfavorably by clients and prospects, remember that they are likely reaching out because of your reputation. This means if you set appropriate expectations (“we’ll get back to you within one business day,” for example), and then keep those promises, you’ll create the space for more thoughtful responses, less stressful days, and more reasonable expectations.
Why boundaries are essential
Many hallmarks of workplace culture, though common, are actually detrimental to our productivity. In our interconnected, always-on working world, setting boundaries at both the individual and corporate level is critical to optimize productivity. After all, when people leave work feeling satisfied and accomplished, it’s good for the employee, the clients, and the business overall.

